Lifeology is the study of the cause of core beliefs and values along with the effects they create and using that knowledge to make life better.
Personal Perception Response (PPR)
The beauty thing about life is that it is ours and we get to make all of the choices for it. Every day many options are available and opportunities are presented to us. What we choose depends on our perceptions of ourselves and the world around us and the results of our choices are our personal responsibility.
We are all born into this world alone inside our self-contained little soft skins, but with the same life force guiding each of us that there is still no single common word for. We can only know it individually and often describe it with our senses as an intelligent all-encompassing love that creates in us a euphoria when we feel connected to it. In some instances we are allowed to live in that love, in others we are not. The more we live in it, the stronger it gets and a better world is being created. If for some reason we are restricted from living there, we bury it within ourselves and keep it masked or an alter-ego is produced, and we build with that. Either way we ignore it and suffering starts.
The only real need we have as humans is to get back in touch with our inherent love and build on that strength to make better choices for our selves, our family, and the world around us. It’s up to each individual…it’s a choice. The kind of universal love that we are born with never leaves us or changes…we do. It also never hurts…any one or any thing…it is purely too high.
We can smile knowing that we have it inside to take care of our own life and sense of being; our own stabilizing life force in which we should always be grounded. We are meant to know it…to cherish it…and to grow in it…without allowing the life to be sucked out of us…or sucking the life out from those around us.
Working together individually
Since everyone is always in one stage or another of growth and acceptance, in and throughout different areas of life, we never have to feel inferior or left behind. We will see that not everyone is ready to take on certain challenges…until they see their own need. We only know when we alone are ready…to recover that which we buried under the hard-ache inside.
Compassion for self expands to others
One of the greatest things you receive when you have healed your own hurts is a natural flow of energy that is compassion.
- Compassion IS a very powerful state of being that can bring healing to people regardless of whether or not you know them or are near them. It is the strength that results from healing your own great personal tragedy that is passed along often unnoticed to others.
- Compassion IS NOT the bleeding heart or heart-on-the-sleeve mentality that sorrowful sympathy-mongers offer up, as sadness has no healing power. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t let them fuss and bring you tea; it just means that’s about all they can do for you.
When you are truly healed, you can send someone in need a grand helping of compassion by having a particular way of feeling good as you think about them. See how quickly they call you with good news or you see them victorious over adversity on TV.
Something you may have to discern if no good news is forthcoming is whether a person is too closed at this time or if you have mixed emotions about them. Regard this as you needing more work in letting go of bad feelings you may still hold towards them or the residue of bad feelings you had sent prior…then leave them be for a while…compassion cannot be forced out of you.
Remember to never have worrisome or sad or bad feelings when you think of someone as you will send them negative energy and depending how much passion you have, you could hurt them, and yourself.